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June 27, 2016

If Tomorrow Never Comes

Just some early morning thoughts from me to you…

Say what you want to say when you have the feeling and the chance. My deepest regrets are the things I did not do, the opportunities missed and the things unsaid.”

Jim Keller

Rainy days seem to bring out that reflective spirit that dwells within all of us—at least they do that for me. Today seems to be no exception, as I sit here, with the rain falling softly outside my window, reflecting again upon something which I really don’t like to think about…

If tomorrow never comes.

Books have been written about it. Songs have been sung from generation to generation to remind us. The lesson of that simple statement penetrates our hearts when loved ones leave us all too soon.

If tomorrow never comes.

From wherever the reminder enters our life, on both rainy and sun-lit days, it always seems to cause us to brake to a stop for a moment, often being moved to tears, vowing to commit to change the way we approach the rest of today and all of our tomorrows and how we treat all the important people and things which are a part of them. (more…)

Posted by: Scott Whitaker at 6:00 am
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June 20, 2016

The Only Thing

Just some early morning thoughts from me to you…

The only thing you ever had to do to make me happy was to come home at the end of the day.”

(President Bartlet to his daughter Ellie, “The West Wing”)

I just got off of I-10 at Baldwin. I should be home in an hour or so.”

We knew it had been a long drive for him, but our son’s voice seemed energized and enthusiastic. Nathan had just called as he was driving home from Duke University for the Christmas break, to update us on the progress of his journey.

The excitement, anticipating his safe arrival within the hour, had both his Mom and me running around finishing up decorations, and a few last things for his return home. Our Basset hound, Amos—Nathan’s dog—could sense that something special was going on, and despite his aching older joints, happily followed us around the house overseeing the final few preparations.

Five minutes later the chimes of front door bell interrupted our efforts. (more…)

Posted by: Scott Whitaker at 6:00 am
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June 13, 2016

Who Leads to What

Just some early morning thoughts from me to you…

Then I took a good look at everything I’d done, looked at all the sweat and hard work. But when I looked, I saw nothing but smoke. Smoke and spitting into the wind. There was nothing to any of it. Nothing.”

Here is my final conclusion: fear God and obey his commandments, for this is the entire duty of man.  For God will judge us for everything we do, including every hidden thing, good or bad.”

Ecclesiastes 2: 11; 12: 13-14 (The Message)

Solomon was supposedly the richest, wisest, smartest, most influential man in all the world at that time—and probably even by today’s standards. And he gets to the end of his life and says—

Then I took a good look at everything I’d done, looked at all the sweat and hard work. But when I looked, I saw nothing but smoke. Smoke and spitting into the wind. There was nothing to any of it. Nothing.”

Here’s another view of what Solomon is reminding us—that the “success” that society talks about which lies in the things of the world, in the things we do and achieve, the stuff we acquire—is nothing. And then concludes that “significance,” the “real meaning” in life, lies in the things of God, in who we are inside.

And that critical difference between the two creates a tension and conflict within us, between following the ways of the world or the ways of God. And when the ways of the world are going well we seem to be fine. We may not notice if we are doing what He wants us to do, or not. (more…)

Posted by: Scott Whitaker at 6:00 am
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June 6, 2016

For All You’re Worth

Just some early morning thoughts from me to you…

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.

Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4: 6-7 (NLT)

Here’s a truth we realize sometime later in life—our feelings of self-worth have been, usually are, and are still today being shaped by the opinions and attitudes of others.

Some of us as children and in our younger years, have been surrounded by people who always affirmed us and our view of our own worth. But some of us weren’t as fortunate. For some of us it was it was about earning acceptance. Still others of us were abandoned—physically or emotionally—and got from all of that a negative view of our self-worth.

But all of us—no matter whether we grew up affirmed or not—somewhere along the way have been affected at some point by the thoughtless words, hurtful actions and unrealistic expectations of others. Words and actions which would color how we see ourselves, if we allowed them to, and which would plant seeds in our minds—causing us to begin to question our worth. Comments and acts by parents, teachers, coaches and others whom we respect and who hold positions of trust in our lives.

And because of those, no matter how much we believe in and have heard of God’s love for us—we struggle to believe it at times.

And that needs to change. (more…)

Posted by: Scott Whitaker at 6:00 am
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